Safe Space Breathing

Target Age Group: Any age

Objective: This technique is to help children manage anxiety and distress related to trauma by creating a safe mental and emotional space. This method is grounded in the theory of mindfulness and emotional regulation, helping children develop coping strategies when faced with overwhelming feelings.

Why it Works

  • Emotional Grounding:
    • Helps children manage overwhelming emotions by providing a mental escape from stress or trauma
    • Visualization fosters a sense of control and safety

  • Mindfulness and Relaxation:
    • Deep breathing activates the parasympathetic nervous system, promoting calm and reducing stress
    • Combining breath control with visualization enhances emotional regulation

  • Cognitive Distraction:
    • Focusing on a comforting mental image interrupts negative thought patterns
    • Prevents children from becoming overwhelmed by distressing emotions

Instructions:

  • Overview:
    • Safe Space Breathing is a calming technique where children imagine a "safe space" in their minds, real or imaginary. By visualizing this place and focusing on their breathing, they can bring their attention away from distressing thoughts.

  • Step 1: Get Comfortable
    • Begin by sitting comfortably with the child, ensuring they are in a calm and quiet environment

  • Step 2: Breathing
    • Ask the child to close their eyes and take three slow, deep breaths
    • Inhale through the nose, hold for three seconds, and exhale through the mouth

  • Step 3: Visualization
    • Guide them to imagine a place where they feel completely safe and relaxed (real or imaginary)

  • Step 4: Describe the Safe Space
    • Ask the child to describe their safe space aloud
    • Encourage attention to details like sights, sounds, and feelings

  • Step 5: Practice
    • Instruct the child to return to this safe space whenever they feel anxious or scared
    • Encourage them to repeat the breathing process as needed